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2010/07/21

一天苏东坡与老和尚一起打禅。老和尚问苏东坡:“你看我打禅像什么?”

苏东坡想了一下,并没有回答,同时反问老和尚:“那你看我打禅像什么?”

老和尚说:“你真像是一尊高贵的佛。”苏东坡听了这一番话,心中暗暗地高兴。

于是老和尚说:“换你说说你看我像什么?”

苏东坡心里想气气老和尚,便说:“我看你打禅像一堆牛粪。”

老和尚听完苏东坡的话淡淡的一笑。

苏东坡高兴地回家找家里的小妹谈论起这件事,小妹听完后笑了出来。

苏东坡好奇地问:“有什么可笑的?”

苏小妹斩钉截铁的告诉苏东坡,

人家和尚心中有佛,所以看你如佛;而你心中有粪,所以看人如粪。

当你骂别人的同时,也是在骂自己。



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这个饶有趣味的故事给我们的启示是:

从批评者的言行能看出其眼界和见识。

所以人的心里想些什么,就会说出什么样的话,

这正好反映出一个人待人处事的风范和内涵。

而骂人的同时也成为别人讨厌的对象,运用言语骂人的人,

必定得不到对方的认同,也会失去别人的信任。

一个良好的沟通应是建立在彼此尊重的角度,才能达到谈话的成果。

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